Posts Tagged "self observation"

Who would have thought the place that I get my very first photo shoot done is at my birth home “Sunny Sheffield” Its was both an exciting an challenging time to be back home. You can really see how much time has passed when you see babies grow into toddlers and toddlers into teenagers “eek”  I haven’t changed much on the outside but over the years I have sculptured and carved the young lady I am today! I am no longer the young girl that second guesses her thoughts or feelings. I create all the opportunities that are presented before me and I have learnt to take responsibilities cause ultimately; “I am the master of self, every experience I engage in and every opportunity that is presented to me is created by me” That is...

  Being yourself is a personal decision Someone may allow you to be yourself doesn’t mean you will take them up on the offer. People will allow you to be yourself if they like what you are dishing out, if they don’t like it that’s where unconditional love comes in or not, allowing,discussion, compromise on both sides, grace or deciding on relationship boundaries. At the end of the day it boils down to Is it or the person really worth the effort?             Are my beliefs and values More important than a relationship that may go against them? Do I only want friends that don’t call me to love unconditionally? Loving unconditionally allows another to be themselves, if after that you don’t like what you see, hear or feel, then...

♦ by Jacque Ratcliffe, Holistic Life-Coach. Sacred Relationships One can easily give away one’s power in a relationship… Personal power is invariably lost when another sees you as a substitute for some emotional hang-up -> like eg.- their absent father figure. Personal power is gained and nurtured when we allow each other to grow and assist in uncovering each other’s fears – however, this can only be done within a high level of maturity, as pointed out by Caroline Myss. Issues in personal relationships are a process – not a problem. A relationship is an exchange of power (a vow) – immature vulnerability is when you have given up power to another person. Change happens – it is a process of growth – it is what a relationship is; a sacred...